7 Essential Tips You Need To Follow If You Want To Start Writing

1. Write for Yourself

“Writing is not necessarily something to be ashamed of, but do it in private and wash your hands afterwards.” -Robert A. Heinlein

Figure out what it is that you want to gain out of writing. Do you want to shoot for the stars and make a career out of it? Or do you want to formulate a hobby around writing, embark on personal poetic endeavors and journal your way through life? If you’re interested in the latter, keep reading, otherwise skip to the next point if you’re looking to profit off of your pieces. Learn to rely on writing as a tool at your disposal. Journal your thoughts and ambitions, record your to-do’s and achievements. Not only does it help you to organize yourself and your thoughts, but it prompts you to actually sit down for several moments a day and have your time with the keyboard or pen.

2. Don’t Expect to Make a Living

“The freelance writer is a man who is paid per piece or per word or perhaps.” - Robert Benchley

If you happen to decide that you want to begin a career as an author, find out first how you can live without paying any bills for several years. Unless you have the means at your disposal and some phenomenal luck, don’t expect to profit off of writing at the snap of a finger. Thankfully, the world in which we live today is so connected that there are a number of paid gigs available for freelance writers. However, even these require a reputable portfolio blooming with published articles. It’s not impossible, nor is it even that difficult – it just requires a ton of effort and even more time. If you don’t want to set yourself up for failure, treat it as a hobby at first and then see where it may take you.

3. Write, Write, Write

“Writing is its own reward” - Henry Miller

If all you do is write, then you’re never doing it wrong. If you’re truly passionate about writing, let it infect your mind to the point that you always find your fingers typing away at something. Essays, blogs, short stories – there are so many ways in which you can let yourself become addicted. The number one piece of advice that is circulating from mouth to ear all over the world is that you have to start with a blog. Everyone’s doing it. Start one for yourself and commit to it. One of the hardest things to do is to find time. If you work full-time and run a family, it’s very difficult to seclude yourself and fire off a few paragraphs or pages. Many authors convey the notion of waking up two hours before starting their day jobs just to write. If you don’t have the time, make the time; writing is a costly investment that can offer ample rewards - mostly intangible in nature.

4. Learn to Share Your Work and Absorb Opinion

“Beware of advice—even this.” - Carl Sandburg

It may be one of the most terrifying things you can ever do: to show someone a piece of writing that you’ve poured your efforts into. Aside from the A+ essay you bring home to mom or the proposal you’ve stitched together at work, it can take a lot of courage to put yourself out there and expose yourself to potentially critical feedback, which leads to the next point of adequately absorbing opinion. If you can’t take the criticism, don’t play the game of writing before the public eye. Writing is an immensely subjective activity – be prepared for objective perspectives that can shatter your confidence. In contrast, don’t become over-reliant on praise either. Take all positive feedback with a grain of salt, especially if the source is from a friend or someone who just wants to be supportive. On the other hand, don’t be devastated from negative opinion – it can be a necessary voice that you ought to hear, a vessel through which progress can be made.

5. Finish Your Work

“The road to hell is paved with works-in-progress.” - Philip Roth

Any writer will agree that it’s an extremely difficult thing to do – to wrap up certain pieces. You’re probably not a born writer if you have a closet (or desktop folder) filled with story after uncompleted story. This more so applies to those who dare to delve into the imaginative world of fiction writing. Deadlines can help you wrap things up and keep an end in sight, as it’s easy to get carried away. Find a way to stay inspired and committed to whatever it is you’re writing. At any rate, ensure that once you commit to something, you never let the flame dim and die - fiction or non.

6. Let Your Pen/Keyboard Guide You

“Writing a novel is like driving a car at night. You can only see as far as your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way” - E. L. Doctorow

Don’t expect to plan every chapter of your next book, or every topic of your next string of blogs. You discover so much more than you’d ever be able to brainstorm halfway through writing any given piece. In reference to the aforesaid point, this is one reason why a piece may remain unfinished; it can certainly be overwhelming. The magic that sprouts from writing is in its ability to captivate not only the readers reading but the writers themselves.

7. Connect

“We are all apprentices in a craft where no one ever becomes a master.” - Ernest Hemingway

Thanks to the increasing inter-connectivity of the world, it’s so easy to write before a world-wide audience, to gain experience and the know-how’s to be great author – you’re doing it right now. Take it a step further and reach out to a published author, someone who’s been there and done it (and even made it), and ask them for their number one piece of advice. I did, several years ago, and in response I was told to write and never stop writing, prompting me to convey it as the third point listed in this article. Beyond the actual tip, it sticks in your mind every time you think about writing, fuels the fire that serves to inspire you.

Subsequently, if you want to start writing with the intention of turning it into a profitable talent, expect to be on the road towards success for quite a while. The best you can do is to immerse yourself in the experience, let it better your day-to-day life and see where it ultimately takes you.

Source:http://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/7-essential-tips-you-need-follow-you-want-start-writing.html

11 Pelajaran hidup setelah anda memasuki umur 30 tahun.

Usia 17-20 tahunan ada usia dimana orang biasa hidup semaunya. Walau tidak semua orang hidup demikian karena mereka mengerti arti dan tujuan hidup mereka. Biasanya setelah 30 tahun orang mulai sadar bahwa mereka sudah memasuki usia DEWASA. Berikut adalah 13 pelajaran yang membuat usia 30an anda semakin efektif.

1. Mulai menabung untuk hari tua.
Menabung adalah kebiasaan yang baik. Setelah 30 tahun biasanya orang lebih mengerti apa arti menabung. Bila anda belum memulai, mulailah. Lebih baik terlambat dari pada tidak pernah memulai sama sekali.

2. Menjaga kesehatan lebih baik.
Kesehatan sangat mahal harganya. Usia 30 tahun adalah usia anda mulai mengatur makanan. Anda harus membiasakan diri yang makanan yang sehat dan bergizi.

3. Jangan menghabiskan waktu dengan orang-orang yang menjatuhkan anda.
Mulailah memilih pergaulan anda, jangan sembarangan bergaul. Jauhilah orang-orang yang bisanya hanya menjatuhkan dan membawa anda jauh dari kesuksesan. Bergaulah dengan orang-orang sukses di dalam karier mereka, dan belajarlah dari mereka.

4. Luangkan waktu dengan orang-orang yang peduli dengan anda.
Siapa yang peduli hidup anda, kerjaan, masa depan anda bergaulah dengan mereka. Bangunlah hubungan yang baik dan belajarlah dari setiap mereka.

5. Fokus pada beberapa hal yang bermamfaat.
Fokuslah pada hal-hal yang bermamfaat untuk mencapai cita-cita anda. Jangan terlalu banyak melakukan hal yang justru membuat mimpian anda menjadi kabur.

6. Berani mengambil resiko.
Bila anda mau melihat kesuksesan maka anda harus berani mengambil resiko. Jangan pernah takut gagal, semua orang sukses pasti pernah gagal. Perbedaan orang sukses dan gagal adalah orang sukses BERANI MENCOBA LAGI, sedangkan orang gagal, tidak mau mencoba lagi.

7.  Bertumbuh dan Belajarlah setiap hari.
Berhenti bertumbuh berhenti belajar. Berhenti belajar, berhenti bertumbuh. Intinya pertumbuhan selalu berkaitan dengan belajar. Belajarlah sebaik mungkin dari apa yang anda bisa pelajari.

8. Inventasi waktu anda dengan keluarga.
Keluarga sangat penting dalam kesuksesan anda. Jika anda sudah terjun dalam keluarga maka anda harus menginvestasikan waktu anda buat keluarga.

9. Belanjakan uang dengan bijaksana.

10. Dengarkan suara hati nurani anda.

11. Tetap membuat rencana harian.